55 ORIGINAL DATE IDEAS
1. LET'S WINE
If you are fortunate enough to live in proximity to wineries, these are always a winning
choice to explore, walk the grounds, do tastings, soak-in some nature and fresh air.
Maybe there are some at a driving distance? A wine tour?
If you are less fortunate, you can hit the local wine shops where they offer wine samples, or look for bars that have wine tasting.
Not into wine? You can replace this with beer! There are tons of breweries popping up all over the country. You could also head to a bar that offers flights of beers.
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2. OFFICIAL LAUGH
Look-up which comedians are performing at a near comedy club and pick an act, even if it's completely random. Laughing gets endorphins flowing, and comedy shows are often cheaper than other types of live entertainment. And if it turns out to be a bad performer, this can be fun in its own special way. Laughing is good for the soul and gets people connected.
If no good acts are happening in your area, search Netflicks for top comedians and watch 1 or 2 shows at home, and grab a drink. We did that on New Year's Eve and it was a great date night!
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3. LET'S ROOM
See if your city is available for the "Let's Room" app and website. Become an explorer of your own city with their handcrafted scavenger hunts adventures, all guided through their app on your phone! These can a real blast!
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4. COFFEE-GAME
Feeling lazy but still want to take your partner out for a cute date, just pick-up some board games (chess is a great idea) or cards and rush to your favorite coffee shop. Sip on delicious coffee while nudging your partner to make the next move. It makes for a very playful environment and you're guaranteed to have a mellow cute date.
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5. STAY-CLOSE-CATION
Don't have the time (or the cash) to get out of town? Book a hotel for the evening — it can be easy to score last-minute deals online. Simply enjoy all the benefits the hotel has to offer; room service, hot tubs, breakfast in bed, and zero responsibilities! You can also drive to the nearest interesting town and stay in a hotel there (1 to 3 hours drive max). You can walk and explore new surroundings and find a cute place for supper. If the hotel has a pool, sauna, or jacuzzi, you can take advantage of that too!
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6. HOP IT UP
It's hard not to have fun jumping around in a room filled with trampolines. Those indoor trampoline parks you hear about aren't just for kids — adults can channel their inner-child and bounce around. Watch out though, it's more tiring than you think.
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7. GOOGLY EYES
Decorate inanimate objects with googly eyes... See how many googly eye stickers you can put on things
without being caught. Hit the zoos, museums, shops, fancy restaurants, really just anywhere you feel like :)
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8. BRING THE THEATRE HOME
Rent a projector, and turn your living room into a movie theatre. Make sure to acquire candy, popcorn, and a blanket. This can be even better than going out to the theatre. You can pause the film to go to the bathroom, use your phone without anyone getting mad, and of course, make out stare-free if things get steamy.
9. SEG YOUR WAY
Explore your own city in a different way with a segway tour. You will both be able to laugh at each other wearing those silly helmets while learning something new together. Plus these things are pretty fun and easy to ride!
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10. TRY TO ESCAPE
Escape rooms allow partners to test their wits and work together as a team. Unleash your inner Sherlock Holmes and use your communication skills in a date full of mysteries and problem-solving. A fully immersive experience that pumps a bit of adrenaline!
11. MAKE IT ALL ARTSY
Going to a museum or art gallery is a cute and educational day date, especially if there's a fun new exhibit out! A quiet place for both of you to gauge each other's interests and conversational skills. Nearly everyone has museums or galleries within driving distance. Plan an afternoon wandering around the exhibits.
Alternative: Make a day of visiting all the art shops around the city!
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12. RESTO-TOUR
Pick an area with a bunch of restaurants. Start with cocktails and appetizers at an agreed restaurant with a bar, lounge or terrace. Then head somewhere completely different for the main course, and finish up someplace else with fabulous desserts.
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13. USE YOUR COINS
And head to your local arcade for a Pac-Man competition and have a unique night out. Trash-talking is very encouraged. You'll revive some of that youthful energy and be surprised how much fun you can squeeze in there!
Alternative: rent out a console and games and go to town!!
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14. N'est-SPA
A day at a spa is guaranteed to put you in the mood for romance. Get solo or couples' massages! Chill out in the jacuzzi! Hang out in the sauna! The sensuous atmosphere is soothing and will make you feel more intimate. Nothing is hotter than total relaxation, Ahh-some!
15. IPHONE-OGRAPHERS
Make it a mission to start taking photos like you were a pro. Go on a car ride and find great places to shoot.
Shots in a field, in front of a cool wall, silly poses, anything goes! You can buy those cheap tripods with
bluetooth remote and take couple of pictures. Sounds like a blast to me!
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16. SAVE A COWBOY
Horseback riding is a great excuse to go outside and get a good dose of nature. It's a better workout than you expect and you'll get to explore places you never could on foot. It's safe and most of the places provide a guide to help beginners. It can emulate some fairy tale romance along with the stable smell.
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17. ALL THAT JAZZ
Find a cozy Jazz club and live like you're in La La Land. Dress-up in your finest, drink some fine liquor and get transported to what feels like another era...minus Ryan Gosling.
18. A'LA FONDUE
Start with meat and/or cheese, then chocolate? Poky metal sticks, hot pot... slow eating. It will force you
to slow down and enjoy a long relaxed supper and have great conversations. Don't forget the wine!
Don't have a fondue pot? Check out our favorite one ==>
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19. BASIC
Go play pool at a local bar with good music, have a few drinks, have a blast!
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20. BOOK-NIC
Go to a book store and each pick-up a piece of interest. Whether being a magazine, novel, or specialized topic, you'll have fun searching and talking about it. Next stop, grocery store. Pick-up yummy items that appeal to you and that you crave now. You can do the same next at the liquor store with a drink or bottle of choice. Then back home to set-it all up mobile and practical. Together choose a nice local park, or interesting location and go have the awesomest "picnic and read" while the sun kisses your faces or the nostalgic sky creates a mood. This will occupy a whole afternoon, is relaxing, fun, interactive, and intimate.
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21. ON THE WATER
If you live on a coast or close to water, see if you can hop on a mini-cruise around your hometown, or a dinner-cruise, or even just a ferry ride! It's a good chance to get fresh air, take in some sights and feel some romance! You can dress-up and make it an event, or go casual for a relaxing time!
22. GET SOME BALLS
Bowling is an old-school date idea with a casual, relaxed feel. There's so much fun to be had in those alleys, from the beer and cheap pizza, to the rush of a strike. Cheer or teach each other, it's guaranteed to give you a few laughs!
23. TREASURE HUNT
Visit your local flea market, vintage or antique stores to find some second-hand gems. Have fun trying on clothes from bygone eras or score a killer midcentury piece of furniture for your house. Or see which one of you can find the most unique item. Antiquing is a great way to find cool items, or just to have a good laugh at all the funky stuff you’ll find.
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24. SUNSET STRIP
Choose a great location with a unique view and go for a walk just before the sunset. There's a reason so many romantic movies end this way. Hold hands and soak it in. Disconnect from insanity!
25. PUZZLE IT OUT
There's something so satisfying about solving areas of a puzzle to the last piece. The process is fun, it gets your mind off anything else, conversation flows, build patience, teamwork, and creative problem-solving. Light-up your favorite scented candle and have your favorite tea for the perfect evening at home. We recommend a 1000-piece puzzle which can provide 2-3 dates!
Check out our affordable favorite puzzles HERE
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26. ROLLEY-GLIDEY
Even if you were not born with perfect balance, going Ice Skating or Roller Skating brings laugher and fun into a light challenge and bonding experience. Helping each other, holding hands, trying to not fall all over each other (although a bit of romantic comedy is cute anyway). If on ice, hot chocolate is a great follow-up activity!
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27. HIKE-KEA
Go to IKEA, the store that has anything a house could dream of. One could get lost in there if it wasn't for the arrows on the floor. You don't need to need anything to enjoy a few hours browsing the aisles. You might realize you really needed that drawer organizer. It'll give you great home ideas and you can stop by the food court for a yummy cake!
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28. SWEET TIME
Go for ice cream or dessert. Share a sundae or have your own select desert in good company. You can end this with a chilled walk holding hands (hopefully not sticky).
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29. SOMETHING FISHY
Take your partner to the aquarium. No ambiance is more romantic than the hush of a soft-lit aquarium. Stroll through the darkened rooms while you point out your favorite creatures behind the glass. It's always fascinating and somehow connects you with the world.
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30. VERY SMALL GOLF
Go for a game of mini-golf! A low-stakes game that allows for some lighthearted fun without feeling like you need to be good at it. Old-fashioned fun, friendly competition and inexpensive, what’s not to like!
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31. OLD-SCHOOL MOVIES
Whether you’re in the mood for watching one movie or a marathon, you can create some ground rules or set a theme. Maybe you and your partner want to pick out your favorite movies from childhood and watch them together? You can set a range for how old the movies have to be.
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32. HIT THE BUCKET
Build "the" bucket list. Sit down together and think big: No item is too "out-there" or mundane to plan ahead for the rest of your life as a couple. How about you tie this into the desert experience just mentioned above?
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33. MAKE IT LOVE ALL OUT
Kick things up a notch. Go to a sex store together and pick-up some kinky toys during the day. In the evening, wear sexy lingerie, light candles, throw rose petals on and around the bed, use edible body paints–whatever floats your boat. Have a romantic supper with wine knowing exactly how the evening will end!
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34. SEE GORGEOUS
Regardless of whether your town/city has a Ferris wheel, observation deck, or other sky-high views, go and find a location that helps you see your area from a new perspective. That could be traveling a few miles out or even just going to a rooftop patio close-by. Discuss where could be the best 1 or 2 best views in the city, then make your way there and take a kissing picture with the view in the background.
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35. DRAMA FOOD
Look for a dinner theatre – Interactive murder mystery-type dinner shows have become very popular. Good food, lively entertainment, and fun. A perfect date combination.
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36. DATE-KARTS
Hit a go-karts track. It's something people rarely think about doing but we haven't come across anyone that didn't enjoy a go-kart experience. Whether you want to be competitive or just enjoy driving those mini race-cars, it'll bring back the children in you and allow you to have a blast in the go-kart arena.
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37. GARDEN OF EDEN
There's no better place to explore on a date than the pretty manicured gardens of a botanical garden. There's something beautiful to see year-round, and nature for everyone. The geeks can read and learn about the various species, the smell is heavenly, the view is as romantic as can be.
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38. FEEL THE BEAT
See a concert — not just major headliners at huge venues, but check out smaller places that showcase indie artists and up-and-comers. Live music can really touch your soul. There is something so real about a singer on stage, singing with all their heart. It makes you move your head along with the beats. Imagine having this real experience with your partner and a good drink. Seems like the ideal perfect date, doesn't it?
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39. COFFEE EXPLORATION
Go to a fancy coffee shop you've never been and order a coffee you've never had. A good way to start a date-day!
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40. BATHE
Surprise your partner with a night of romance he/she won't forget: Set up a steamy, intimate bath filled with candles, bubbles, champagne, and anything else to set the mood of your at-home spa day. Trust us, you'll want to add this date night to your list! You can follow this by alternating giving each other a 30-minute massage.
For supplies, see below... (the battery operated candles flicker and create a fantastic atmosphere without dealing with fire, we love it!)
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41. GROOVE
Learn a dance routine to a popular song – pick something you both really like. Next time you’re at a party or a wedding, you can be "that" couple. Just imagine your friends’ faces when you two start doing the whole routine in perfect sync! :)
You can even take a dance class and get help and inspiration from the dance teacher or from YouTube videos.
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42. GET LOST CORNY
If available in your area, go check out a corn maze. It can be totally cute, different, and fun. An afternoon or evening in a strategically manicured corn field sounds like an opportunity for showing off your navigation skills and sneaking hidden kisses among the rows.
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43. VIRTUALLY
If you're lucky enough to have Virtual Reality game rooms in your area, this can make for a really cool date! It's a new hi-tech experience for most people and something that has not been overdone, unlike many other dates!
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44. ON TWO WHEELS
Take your own or rent some bikes and get pedaling. You'll get some fresh air exercising together. You can find some spots to relax along the way or have a coffee, and enjoy each other’s company. Ride through the prettiest parts of your town and explore. Bonus points if you can get your hands on a tandem bicycle.
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45. DOLLAR DATE CHALLENGE
The rules are simple. Create a small budget of at least $10 each, and then you set up a certain amount of time for you each to run around the Dollar store separately in search of quirky fun little gifts that remind you of each other. You can be a little imaginative here. When time is up, you each check out independently without peeking at each other's goodies. After a nice supper, reveal each item one at a time, and explain why you chose that item for your partner. It's a cute idea and budget-friendly!
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46. LET IT SLIDE
Go to a waterpark. There are lots of indoor water parks if the weather isn’t right for an outdoor water park. There's always a wave pool, that will make you feel like you're on vacation somewhere else.
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47. LOCAL SUPPORT
It's pretty much a guarantee that you'll find a local play, poetry reading, dance troupe, or other public events to attend—and it's supporting local culture, even if it doesn't end up being your cup of tea. Or attend an improv event. Look online or the local newsletter, pick and go!
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48. ANIMAL LIKE
Visit a pet store together. This is usually good for stirring up warm fuzzy feelings and having refreshing "no thoughts" moments. Who knows, you might even end up leaving with an extra family member!
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49. ANIMAL INSTINCT
Go to the zoo! A simple straightforward date that is always fascinating. You won't run out of things to talk about and you can actually read the info about the species and learn a few more things!
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50. DREAM THE DREAM
Even if you can't afford it at the moment, it's fun to look at paradise pictures, exotic beaches together. Take some time to research your dream vacation, discuss it, and establish where you would go, where you’d stay and all the activities you’d do. Look into accommodation options, find cool spots and restaurants, and bookmark it all so you can officially make it happen in the (hopefully) near future.
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51. TAKE A HIKE
It doesn't have to be an intense hike, just find a cool trail nearby and take in the sights. It's great exercise but doesn't feel like a chore! It will get the blood flowing, the oxygen pumping, and be the start of a great evening!
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52. DIRTY DANCING (minus the dirty part)
Try a dance class together and share a laugh (Ballroom dancing?). Doing something new will bring fresh energy to your relationship, and you’ll get to see a different side of each other. Even if your partner has two left feet, learning a new skill will bond you closer together. Top it up with a bite to eat afterward? It’s a very romantic activity and a decent workout as well.
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53. NEW-GAMES NIGHT
Go buy a few new games at the store and have a "new-games" night! One of those games could be a childhood classic game like Trouble, Battleship, Mastermind, Uno, etc... but the others should be unknown. You'll get to spend some time researching them at the store, asking employees for opinions, etc... Then later on, you will get to read the rules and discover them together. That will also give you more game options for your next game nights!
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No time to go to the store? See our favorite 2 people games below:
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54. HOUSE OPEN
Scope local real estate listings for open houses, even if you have zero plans to buy a home. Get some decor ideas, discuss what you like and don't like, it might be useful later on! We often did that in brand new home developments, it's more interesting than you might think. If it's an already occupied home, add the voyeurism thrill and the critical discussion to the experience!
55. RETRO WAY
Delightfully retro, there’s something so cozy about watching a movie at the drive-in. It takes you to a different decade and brings back some of that old-school romance. It is intimate, different, and makes you wanna make-out and fog-up the windows!
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*BONUS TO INSERT INTO ANY DATE:
- Write each other a funny poem, draw sketches of one another, and exchange them both later on. That can be quite entertaining and brings quality time at no cost.
- Get your fortune told if you walk in front of such a place. That'll give you something to laugh and joke about in the future.
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we provide the ideas!!